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Today is the 3rd day of the 46th week, the 15th day of the 11th month, the 320th day of 2016, and: 
  • America Recycles Day
  • American Enterprise Day
  • Day of the Imprisoned Writer
  • George Spelvin or More Than One Role Day – a very important person in theater!   
  • I Love to Write Day
  • Little Red Wagon Day
  • National Bundt (Pan) Day
  • National Clean Out Your Refrigerator Day
  • National Entrepreneurship Day
  • National Philanthropy Day
  • National Raisin Bran Cereal Day
  • National Spicy Hermit Cookie Day
  • Pack Your Mom's Lunch Day
  • Rock Your Mocs Day
ON THIS DAY:  In 565 Justin II succeeded his uncle, Justinian I, as emperor of the Byzantine Empire.  In 1533 Francisco Pizarro arrived in Cuzco, the capital of the Inca Empire.  In 1777 the Second Continental Congress approved the Articles of Confederation, a precursor to the Constitution of the United States.  In 1920 the first assembly of the League of Nations was held in Geneva, Switzerland.  In 1971 Intel released the world's first commercial single-chip microprocessor, the 4004.  In 1990 the space shuttle Atlantis launched on mission STS-38. 

Category:  you can’t make this shit up


First incident:
  I have a cold, a bad one, and my voice is just about gone.  Last night, I was in the elevator with two black women, dressed nicely, who were on either side of me.  I looked up and moved further into my corner.  They smirked at each other and then one said to me  “we don’t stink, you know.  I did take a shower”.  I was stunned, and managed to croak out  “no it isn’t that.  I have a bad cold and am trying not to breathe on anyone”.   They both looked very surprised, but it was obvious I was sincere [and sick].  As they got off, the other woman turned and told me that she hoped I felt better.

Second incident:  the receptionist for the real estate management company where I work is Hispanic;  she has lived here for decades, and is originally from El Salvador.  This morning, a male lawyer walked in, leaned over her desk and asked her if she was packing up to go back to Mexico where she belongs.  She looked up, and asked him if he was prepared to head back to his point of origin since it was plain he was not Native American.  He muttered, realized that there were other people about, and walked away.  . 

I have been reading that many of the incidents reported after the election results are thought to have been made up.  Those two black women assumed that as a white, I was somehow distancing myself from them because they were black.   A LAWYER felt comfortable making a comment about deportation to a Hispanic woman.    Now no one was hurt, no one was “threatened” or harmed in either of these incidents, but there is no doubt whatsoever in my mind that both directly attributable to folks feeling the change in civility throughout this political campaign and especially since 11.09.  

Where is Miss Manners when you need her?  


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